The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference

“She had called me a coward for what I’d done and I knew she was right. That’s why her apology later made me feel worse. She wouldn’t acknowledge me or even look at me after that. I knew I wasn’t forgiven. It’s like I wasn’t even important enough to hold a grudge against. She was […]

The 1975: Not your typical pop band

“The 1975” has been described as electropop, funk rock, indie pop, indie rock, pop, pop rock and rock. I’ve been listening to them a lot lately as I go about my day or while I’m getting ready in the morning. I love their eclectic vibe and their quirky way of expressing themselves through their lyrics, sound and visual videos.      

The hardest thing I ever had to write: A Eulogy for my Best Friend.

On August 28th 2007, the world lost an amazing soul, and heaven gained a new angel. Below is the eulogy I wrote to honor my late best friend, Michelle Dymalski.In the days that followed her death, I was privileged enough to share these words at her funeral service.  I can still feel the pain I […]

“ENFP”..Extraversion, Intuition, Feeling, Perception

Took a test online to see which of the 16 personalities I was, and found out I was a “Campaigner” better known as an “ENFP.” It was amazingly accurate and interesting all at the same time. It is psychology based and has been researched extensively throughout the years. I’ve had many of my family members […]

This August marks 10 years

10 years without her beautiful smile, her infectious laughter and unforgettable hugs. The absence of her is still cripplingly painful and ever present for me. Like learning to live without a limb, I’m always aware of my loss and residual pain. I’ve learned to cope and accept her death but allowing myself to let go […]

Repost from my sister’s Tumblr

I may be biased but this girl is the shit!! She just so happens to be my baby sister, the youngest of our tribe of 6 siblings. This made me laugh so much and I know it will make you laugh too!I love you Lauren Dee 24 things I learned in 24 years.Birthdays often mean […]